Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Discerning Reader Editorial Review of Sacred Friendships


Discerning Reader Editorial Review of Sacred Friendships

Many people in Evangelical circles are familiar with the name Tim Challies because of his insightful book reviews (http://www.challies.com/).

A number of years ago, Tim decided to expand his reviewing influence by starting a second book review site, Discerning Readers (
http://discerningreader.com/). At DR, Tim has over a dozen other reviewers working with him under the excellent leadership of Mark Tubbs. About three months ago I started doing reviews for Tim and Mark at DR and have truly enjoyed my connection with these men.

Tim Challies' site along with Discerning Reader are the two most visited blogs for Evangelical book reviews.

Today, one of the long-time DR reviewers, Leslie Wiggins, shares her views on Sacred Friendships in stop number 17 on the Sacred Friendships Blog Tour. DR has made Leslie's review of Sacred Friendships their featured review for the week.

Leslie begins her review with these words:

In the writings of early church history, women’s voices have gone underrepresented. This realization began Dr. Robert Kellemen’s desire for writing Sacred Friendships. In addition to his work in biblical counseling, his personal passion is to empower “those who have been robbed of their voice.” Like the women they profile in their book, co-author Susan Ellis’ passion lies in ministering to women and seeing God work in their lives. Kellemen and Ellis combined their passions in order to write the stories of more than fifty remarkable Christian women who offered care and direction for the souls of men and women throughout church history.

Leslie concludes her review with this recommendation:

I am happy to recommend Sacred Friendships to Christian women, counselors and mentors, and women in ministry. It’s a perfect book for a women’s book club or small group; the discussion questions are quite thought-provoking and would lend themselves to an edifying small group discussion. Read it with your mentor or use it to begin your own sacred friendship.

But that's just the tip of the proverbial iceberg. To enjoy Leslie's entire review, please visit her Discerning Reader review at: http://bit.ly/1EzTcf.

To enjoy the entire book, at 40% off, please order at: http://bit.ly/MG1l5.

Monday, October 12, 2009

Mark Tubbs Probes the Core of Sacred Friendships

Mark Tubbs Probes the Core of Sacred Friendships

Many people in Evangelical circles are very familiar with the name Tim Challies because of his insightful book reviews (http://www.challies.com/).

A number of years ago, Tim decided to expand his reviewing influence by starting a second book review site, Discerning Readers (http://discerningreader.com/). At DR, Tim has over a dozen other reviewers working with him under the excellent leadership of Mark Tubbs.

About three months ago I started doing reviews for Tim and Mark at DR and have truly enjoyed my connection with these men.

Mark graciously agreed to join the Sacred Friendships Blog Tour and he created some very thought-provoking author Q and A interactions for me.

For instance, Mark asks:

Q: You mentioned (in Author Q & A # 6) that the historic voices of women have been silenced in church history due in large part because the writers of church history have been men. Do you believe it is possible for a church or denomination or movement to have a healthy, biblical view of women’s roles in the church even if women’s stories have been lost, or is it absolutely vital that we recover the stories?

Would you like to know my answer to this question and a bunch of others like it? Sure you would. Check them out at the DR site at: http://bit.ly/2Fpv7Y

And don't forget to pick up a copy of the book. As Mark says:

Having read portions of the book - but I highly recommend you read the whole thing, as I plan to - I posed Bob some questions.

Get your autographed copy at 40% off at: http://bit.ly/MG1l5

Connecting to Christ's Resurrection Power

Are You Plugged In?
Connecting to Christ's Resurrection Power


This past Saturday, I was presenting one of my How to Care Like Christ seminars (http://bit.ly/3YYAR4).

About five minutes into the presentation, my computer started to go into hibernation mode! Nothing I could do would stop it. The cords all seemed plugged into the power source, but it just shut down on me.

Imagine the scene. Put yourself in my shoes as a speaker.

My entire presentation is PowerPoint driven. Most of these people didn’t know me. The whole start and set-up for the entire day could be ruined.

What would you do? What would you think? How might you respond?

That’s When God Showed Up

The tech guys (always have tech guys!) discovered that someone had accidently unplugged the extension cord from the wall hidden behind the platform. We were disconnected from the power source.

As Forest Gump might say, “That’s when God showed up.”

God’s Spirit not only calmed my spirit, He enlightened my mind.

What Satan Meant for Evil, God Meant for God

I shared with the crowd, “Satan wants to ruin our day. God wants to empower our day.”

I continued, “My computer had been disconnected from the power source. It shut down, hibernated, because it has limited battery power of its own.”

I went on to say, “A major theme of the How to Care Like Christ seminar is that we must tap into Christ’s resurrection power (Philippians 3:10). The same power that raised Christ from the dead, is within every Christian (Ephesians 1:18-20).”

“Our limited power of the flesh is nothing compared to the infinite resurrection power of Christ. His power is not some impersonal force, for our God is infinitely powerful and infinitely personal. We tap into His power by connecting to Him; by fellowshipping with and worshipping Him; and by communing with Christ through spiritual disciplines.”

All of a sudden, every person in that room realized that God had shown up!

He blessed us with a disconnected power cord that shut down my computer and could have ruined my presentation because He wanted to teach us not to rely upon ourselves but upon the God who raises the dead!

Are You Plugged In?

At the end of the seminar, I always have us spend time reflecting on and sharing together about what most impacted us, about what we will “take home with us.”

Thankfully, many things we had shared in the How to Care Like Christ seminar impacted people.

But guess what impacted many people the most? Yep. It wasn’t anything I said or did. It was what God did. It was an unplugged power cord.

So many people shared, “What God taught me today is that in my Christian life, I have to stay connected to Him.” And, “If I am going to minister to others and care like Christ, then I have to stay plugged into Christ.”

Are you plugged in?

Or are you trying to live your Christian life on battery power?

The limited power of the flesh will eventually cause us to hibernate spiritually.

Let’s stay connected to our infinitely powerful and infinitely personal God.

Let’s stay plugged in!


Sunday, October 11, 2009

Answering Life's Seven Ultimate Questions

Be Empowered to Care Like Christ

Do you minister to people’s personal needs and care deeply, but desire further equipping so you can care like Christ?

Do you want to be empowered to use the Bible more wisely, powerfully, and lovingly?

Would you like to learn biblical answers to life's seven ultimate questions?

Then attend the RPM Ministries Changing Lives Seminar: How to Care Like Christ.

Our next upcoming How to Care Like Christ Seminar:

Saturday, October 31, 9:00 AM to 4:00 PM at Mt. Sinai Baptist Church, 1615 Third Street, N.W., Washington DC.

*Cost:

$25 per person. Your costs include a continental breakfast, a light lunch, the seminar notes, and the full-day seminar presentation by Dr. Kellemen.

*To Register:

Contact the Church Office at 202-667-1833 and ask for Minister Charles Traylor and the Changing Lives Seminar.

Or email Paula Stevens-Lassiter at mtsinaidc@verizon.net

Saturday, October 10, 2009

How to Care Like Christ

RPM Ministries Changing Lives Seminar

Do you care deeply for people, but find it difficult to obtain equipping that empowers you to care like Christ?

Are you ready to learn the art of Christ Care?

*Learn How to Change Lives with Christ’s Changeless Truth

*Learn How to Care Like Christ

*Learn How to Use the Bible Accurately, Powerfully, and Lovingly in Your Personal Relationships

A One-Day Seminar Presented by Dr. Bob Kellemen

Bob is a nationally-known speaker, writer, consultant, educator, and counselor. He’s the author of Soul Physicians, Spiritual Friends, Beyond the Suffering, Sacred Friendships, and God’s Healing for Life’s Losses. He has equipped thousands of lay people, pastors, and counselors as Chairman of the Master of Arts in Christian Counseling and Discipleship Department (Capital Bible Seminary), as Director of the Biblical Counseling and Spiritual Formation Network, and as Founder/CEO of RPM Ministries.

Learn Biblical Answers to Life's Seven Ultimate Questions

1. What is truth? Where do we find answers?
2. Who is God?
3. Who am I?
4. What went wrong? Why do I sin and suffer?
5. How do people change?
6. Where am I headed?
7. How can I help?

Be Equipped for One Another Ministry as a Spiritual Friend, Biblical Counselor, and Soul Physician:

*Learn how to understand people biblically: Discover how God designed us to live, love, and relate.

*Learn how to diagnose problems scripturally: Uncover what went wrong—why do we do the things we do?

*Learn how to prescribe God’s solutions effectively: Apply Christ’s answers for our daily life problems.

*Learn how to weep with those who weep: Offer sustaining care for discouraged people—empathize with people.

*Learn how to give hope to the hurting: Offer healing comfort for suffering people—encourage people as you relate God’s truth to daily life.

*Learn how to be a dispenser of grace: Offer reconciling care-fronting for sinning people—enlighten people as you speak the truth in love.

*Learn how to disciple, coach, and mentor: Offer guiding counsel for growing people—empower people to tap into Christ’s resurrection power.

Changing Lives Seminar Schedule

8:30-9:00 Registration and Continental Breakfast

9:00-12:00 Morning Session with Two Breaks

How to Change Lives with Christ’s Changeless Truth: Become a Christ-Centered, Comprehensive, Compassionate, and Culturally-Informed Soul Physician

Everyone talks about biblical counseling, but how do we make biblical counseling truly biblical? Learn how to use God’s Word accurately, powerfully, and lovingly. Be equipped to become an artful soul physician by developing a Christ-centered, comprehensive, compassionate, and culturally-informed biblical model of people helping, counseling, and one another ministry that values and applies the sufficiency, supremacy, authority, and relevancy of Scripture to change lives with Christ’s changeless truth.

12:00-1:00 Lunch Fellowship Together

1:00-4:00 Afternoon Session with Two Breaks

How to Care Like Christ: Become an Empathizing, Encouraging, Enlightening, and Empowering Spiritual Friend

Everyone wants to “do biblical counseling” and to “be a spiritual friend,” but what does it actually “look like” in practice? Learn how to use God’s Word to empathize, encourage, enlighten, and empower others. Be equipped to become a skillful spiritual friend by developing the biblical soul care and spiritual direction arts of sustaining, healing, reconciling, and guiding to care like Christ.

Contact Us:

To host or to attend an RPM Ministries Changing Lives Seminar contact us:

RPM Ministries
PO Box 270, Crown Point, IN 46308, 219-662-8138
www.rpmministries.org, rpm.ministries@gmail.com

Equipping You to Change Lives with Christ’s Changeless Truth

Christ-Centered, Comprehensive, Compassionate, and Culturally-Informed Biblical Counseling and Spiritual Formation

Friday, October 09, 2009

God's Peace for Our Anxiety

The Anatomy of Anxiety, Part 4: God’s Peace for Our Anxiety

Note: For part one of this mini-series, please visit: http://bit.ly/aHstk. For part two, please visit: http://bit.ly/20R01P. for part three, stop by: http://bit.ly/HAoxI.
Does worry, doubt, or fear get the best of you sometimes? Do you wonder where anxiety comes from and how to defeat it in your life and the lives of those you love?

Then we need a biblical anatomy of anxiety.

Perfect Love Casts Out All Fear

In 1 John 4:18, God tells us that “perfect love casts out all fear”—phobos, phobia, terror, panic, separation anxiety. Such fear involves paralyzing apprehension that causes me to flee what I fear or become paralyzed when facing my fear because I doubt my relational security and acceptance. What overpowers such fear of rejection, separation, and condemnation?

God’s answer is faith in perfect love—perfect agape, sacrificial, giving, grace-oriented love. Anxieties and phobias signify a failure to apprehend and apply God’s powerful promise of gracious acceptance.

Spiritual: Faith in God—Accept God’s Acceptance

We need to help one another to reject Satan’s condemnation narrative—his lie that we are unforgiven because God is unforgiving. We need to move with each other from alienation to communion through reconciliation.

We need to make real in our lives the truth that there is no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus. We need to make real in our lives the truth that nothing can separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus. As Martin Luther often said, “sanctification is the art of getting used to our justification.”

I would add, “peace and freedom from anxiety is the art of getting used to our reconciliation.”

Social—Faith in One Another—Trusting My Brothers and Sisters

Since mature love casts out fear, I need mature relationships with my brothers and sisters to conquer anxiety. I need to move from separation to community.

The temptation in anxiety is to do the opposite of what we need—to avoid people due to fear of rejection. Instead, we need to experience our partnership in the Gospel. We need to forgive and accept one another as Christ has forgiven and accepted us.

Self-Aware: Faith in Our Acceptance in Christ

Since mature love casts out fear, I need a mature biblical attitude about who I am in and to Christ. I need to see the new me. This is not about “self-esteem,” or “self-image,” but about “Christ-esteem” and an accurate biblical image of who I am in Christ.

This moves us from the paralyzing terror of nakedness that leads to the fear of exposure and rejection to the bold freedom and confidence that comes when we know we are unashamed and without blame in Christ Jesus. I must face my existential doubts (my doubts about my acceptance in Christ) in order to face, understand, and overcome my specific anxieties, fears, and phobias.

The Rest of the Story

Join us again on Tuesday when we examine biblical principles for overcoming anxiety with faith, hope, love, and peace.

Thursday, October 08, 2009

The Anatomy of Anxiety, Part 3

The Anatomy of Anxiety, Part 3: From Fear to Faith by Love

Note: For part one of this mini-series, please visit: http://bit.ly/aHstk. For part two, please visit: http://bit.ly/20R01P

Does worry, doubt, or fear get the best of you sometimes? Do you wonder where anxiety comes from and how to defeat it in your life and the lives of those you love? Then we need a biblical anatomy of anxiety.

A Theology of Anxiety

To develop relevant, effective “methods” of helping one another to deal with anxiety, we first need a biblical, accurate “theology” of life. In a “theology of anxiety,” we address: a.) the core question we all ask, b.) the core issues we all face, c.) the core longing we all pursue, and d.) the core fear we all face.

The Core Question We All Ask

The deepest questions in the human soul are God-questions. We all ask the core question, “How can I experience peace with God?” Such peace, biblically speaking, involves shalom—harmony, wholeness, oneness, communion, and fullness. Therefore, the ultimate focus in spiritual friendship is to assist each other in our quest for peace with God.

Put practically, when I am ministering to a friend struggling with anxiety, I am asking myself, “Where is my spiritual friend doubting God’s accepting grace in Christ? Where is he or she doubting God’s affectionate sovereignty?”

The Core Issues We All Face

The core issues we all face in life are relational issues because God created us in His own Trinitarian, communitarian, relational image. Therefore, relational issues become our predominant diagnostic indicator. The fundamental lens through which I interpret life is the lens of relationship.

So, when I am ministering to an anxious friend, I am asking myself, “What relational separation issues might be lying hidden beneath my spiritual friend’s specific fears?”

The Core Longing We All Pursue

Created to love God and to love our neighbor as ourselves, our core longing in life is for relational connection, communion, and peace—not simply the absence of hostility, but the presence of unity and equality in diversity. Since the deepest longing in life is relationship, the greatest power we have as spiritual friends is our relationship with one another.

Practically speaking, in ministering to a friend battling anxiety, I am asking myself, “How can I offer my spiritual friend tastes of Christ’s mature love and grace?”

The Core Fear We All Face

The core fear in life is shameful separation. Adam and Eve said it well and experienced it first. “I was afraid, because I was naked, so I hid.” Anxiety is the hiding disease. We fear exposure.

In ministering to a friend fighting against such relational fear, I am asking myself, “What core nakedness is my spiritual friend terrified will be exposed?”

The Rest of the Story

Join us again on Monday when we enjoy God’s Peace for Our Anxiety.

A Vast Storehouse of Wisdom



A Vast Storehouse of Wisdom

Dr. Ian Jones, professor of biblical counseling at Southwestern Theological Seminary in Fort Worth, TX joins the Sacred Friendships Blog Tour today.

You can find his full post over at the Biblical Counseling and Spiritual Formation Network blog site at: http://bit.ly/no8V
Here's a small taste of Dr. Jones' review.

"Kellemen and Ellis uncover a vast storehouse of wisdom, spiritual counsel, and practical direction in the lives of these women. In so doing, they provide a refreshing antidote to an empty feminism void of biblical content and to an equally unbiblical blind dismissal of the value of women. The stories, drawn from five continents and covering nearly two millennia, offer practical wisdom, biblical insight, and inspiration for current approaches to counseling and soul care."

To learn more about Sacred Friendships and to order your copy at 40% off, please visit: http://bit.ly/MG1l5

Infinite Possibilities


Infinite Possibilities

Cynthia Russell Bailey (Cindy) over at her always insightful Word4Women's Blog has posted her review of Sacred Friendships. Please read her encouraging words at: http://bit.ly/2xNEcY

Cindy's review is very encouraging. Here are three samplers:

“As I began to read this amazing book, the words of the Apostle Paul to Timothy came to mind, remembering the “genuine faith” Timothy possesses, Paul acknowledges the source of his faith is his Mother Eunice and Grandmother Lois. They had provided sound teaching and soul care for this man of God. Little did they know the impact their exhortations would have on the Christendom.”

“For many years there has been a void in the availability of material discussing the lives of Christian women in the centuries between the Book of Revelation and time period of the Reformation. Sacred Friendships fills this void in a manner which is comprehensive while concise, substantive while readable and educational and applicable.”

“I trust that the preceding has but wet your appetite to learn more about these women. The book Sacred Friendships has infinite possibilities for its audience. From use as a personal devotional, reading and meditating on the lives of these women and the scriptures they represented to a core text for a college or seminary class entitled History of Christian Womanhood 101…. There are endless uses. Whatever your age, education level or pursuit read this book. You will be richly blessed.”

To become part of these “infinite possibilities,” pick up your own autographed copy at 40% off at: http://bit.ly/MG1l5

Wednesday, October 07, 2009

Sentry Duty

The Anatomy of Anxiety, Part 2: Sentry Duty

Note: For part one of this mini-series, please visit: http://bit.ly/aHstk

Does worry, doubt, or fear get the best of you sometimes? Do you wonder where anxiety comes from and how to defeat it in your life and the lives of those you love?

Then we need a biblical anatomy of anxiety.

A Picture Is Worth 1,000 Words

Picture the difference between anger, anxiety, and vigilant faith like this:

*Anger: The Fight Response to Threat—Attack: Vigilante Justice.

Taking matters into my own hands.

*Anxiety: The Flight Response to Threat—Retreat: Vigil without Action.

Taking my safety into my own hands. “If I worry enough, at least I feel as if I have some control.”

*Vigilance: The Faith Response to Threat—Befriend and Tend (Engage and Protect): Vigorous Response.

Taking the safety of myself and others and surrendering it to God’s hands while I take a stand for God’s plan. It is befriending and tending to others even when I am threatened.

Called to Sentry Duty

The root “vig” relates to sentry. God built into our brains a sentry. A sentinel. Adam went off sentry duty when he allowed his wife to be attacked by Satan without intervening. He failed to use his vigor—his energy, force, power given to him from God to “keep the garden” and to “cleave to his wife.”

Where does fear fit into this equation? We know that fear is a God-given emotion. We are called to fear God. Why did God create us with a capacity to fear, and how does fear run amok?

Fear is our response to uncertainty about our resources in the face of danger. We are assaulted by a force that overwhelms us. Then we are compelled to face that we are helpless and that ultimately our safety is out of our control. Faith faces this reality by trusting in the unseen reality of a God who cares and controls. Fear compels me to face my neediness.

Anxiety is fear without faith. It is vigilance run amok. We scan the horizon constantly, fearfully, but without ever taking action or responsibility. And without clinging to God.

Biblical Models

Jesus models constructive vigilance in the garden. He faced His dread of death (Matthew 26:39). And He placed faith in His Father’s good heart and strong hands (Matthew 26:39).

Jesus’ disciples modeled destructive fear and anxiety. Peter at one point chose the fight response of vigilante justice—cutting off an ear! At another point Peter chose the flight response of vigil without action—denying the Lord three times. All of the disciples displayed the inability to hold a vigil. “Could you not keep vigil with me one hour?”

Faith or Fear?

Healthy vigilance and a godly response to fear prompt us to relationship: trusting God with faith. And it prompts us to impact: protecting others through vigilance with vigor.

Abnormal, unhealthy, sinful anxiety prompts us to retreat from relationship: we turn to inward scanning without relational trust in God. And it prompts us to retreat from impact: we experience vigilance without vigor as we self-protect instead of lovingly and strongly protecting others.

Fear of God roots us in the essence of existence not in the externals of our situation. Where does fear drive us? To protect ourselves through the flight response of anxiety or the fight response of anger? Or to God, our Protector who empowers us to tend and befriend (“Guard the garden!”)?

The Rest of the Story

Join us again tomorrow when we explore how to move From Fear to Faith by Love.

The Anatomy of Anxiety, Part 1

The Anatomy of Anxiety, Part 1: Worriers or Warriors

Does worry, doubt, or fear get the best of you sometimes? Do you wonder where anxiety comes from and how to defeat it in your life and the lives of those you love?

Then we need a biblical anatomy of anxiety.

God intended for us to experience a mood that is the “flip side” of anxiety. If we are to understand the “disorder” of anxiety, we must understand the “order” that sin has disordered. What normal, healthy, God-given process has become perturbed in anxiety?

Vigilance

Anxiety is vigilance out of control and out of context. God designed us with the mood of vigilance which is meant to move us to relationship and impact. With vigilance, God puts us in fast motion, urges us to act quickly in response to a life threat.

Anxiety is “stuck vigilance.” Vigilance is proper, constructive concern for the well-being of others, the world, and self. Anxiety is vigilance minus faith in the Father. Vigilance results in tend and befriend behavior. Anxiety results in flight or fight behavior.

Anxiety is vigilance that does not turn us back to trust. It leads us to a toxic scanning of our environment. God says, “Be vigilant! Be alert! Take your stand, and having done all, stand firm! Quit ye like men!”

Anxiety says, “What if? I can’t handle this! I have to run. I have to fight. I have to self-protect!” Anxiety is scanning without standing. Instead of scanning and standing, we scan, and scan, and scan… It is continual worry. Continued “what if?” thinking and feeling.

The Family Tree of Anxiety

Vigilant faith, anxiety, and anger are cousins. Their family tree? Vigor, from which we gain three related words: vigilante, vigil, and vigorous. Anxiety and anger involve vigilance without faith and without love. They are non-trust, non-relational responses to threat.

Vigilance, on the other hand, is a trust, relational response to threat. It relates to others by protecting the person being threatened. It relates to others by engaging, challenging, confronting (not attacking) the person doing the threatening. It relates to God by trusting that what He calls me to do, He equips me to fulfill. In God's Kingdom we are either worriers or warriors!

The Rest of the Story

Return tomorrow when we picture the differences between flight, fight, and faith. We'll also explore positive and negative examples in the Bible of vigilance versus anxiety.


Rock Solid Narrative

Rock Solid Narrative

As the Sacred Friendships Blog Tour nears its halfway point, Rick Howerton over at Serendipityblog.com posted his review today. You can also link to him via this shortcut: http://bit.ly/2DlqSW

Among other insights, Rick calls Sacred Friendships "rock solid narrative."

See what else Rick has to say at http://bit.ly/2DlqSW

If you'd like an autographed copy at 40% off, please visit: http://bit.ly/MG1l5

Tuesday, October 06, 2009

Giving Color to Women's History

Giving Color to Women's History

Professor Bill Higley and gradudate student Chelsea Huizing review chapters 1-2 and 10-12 of Sacred Friendships on the Sacred Friendships Blog Tour.

To visit Bill's excellent and informative site and to read their review, you can go here: http://bit.ly/124G6n

Here's a sampler, a taste, of what they had to say about Sacred Friendships:

"At the end of each description, you feel as though you have sat down and read a letter from the life of each woman; there is no disguising of words, no mincing of emotions. Many sources are used to give color to the stories, both facts from history books and quotes from personal letters; they serve to paint ever clearer pictures of how these women lived, loved and ministered within their friendships and companionships."

To order your copy, please visit: http://bit.ly/MG1l5

Monday, October 05, 2009

Josh Young Reviews Sacred Friendships


Josh Young Reviews Sacred Friendships

As week three of the Sacred Friendships Blog Tour launches, we start with Josh Young over at Ad Augusta Per Angusta (To High Places by Narrow Roads) posting a complete review of Sacred Friendships.

Please be sure to visit Josh's site at: http://salvationsogreat.blogspot.com/

You can also follow Josh on Twitter at: http://twitter.com/joshuabyoung

Here's a sneak peak at some of what Josh has to say about Sacred Friendships:

"The noble task of giving back a voice is the heart and soul of Dr. Bob Kellemen and Susan Ellis’ new book Sacred Friendships. Their work has over 50 stories of historical women of the faith, who practiced the art of counseling both the suffering and the sinning in ways that are still echoing through the annals of time. Sacred Friendships does more than simply teach on the role of women in historical counseling, it also helps us train our ears to hear the beautiful narratives of brave souls and learn from their ministries of grace and truth."

To order your copy of Sacred Friendships, please visit: http://bit.ly/MG1l5

The Sacred Friendships Blog Tour: Week Three

The Sacred Friendships Blog Tour:
Week Three: Full Reviews


Don’t miss out on the excitement. Join the journey this week as you learn the story behind the stories of over 50 remarkable women of the faith.

Learn More

To learn more about the blog tour, please visit:
http://bit.ly/J7Tpt

To learn more about Sacred Friendships, please visit:
http://bit.ly/1KqalI

To order your copy of Sacred Friendships, please visit:
http://bit.ly/MG1l5

Week Three

Here’s what you can expect to discover this week and where you can find it.

*Monday, October 5, Joshua Young:

http://salvationsogreat.blogspot.com/

Josh writes a full review of Sacred Friendships

*Tuesday, October 6, Bill Higley:
http://3rdjohn8.blogspot.com/

Bill reviews chapters 1-2, and 10-12 of Sacred Friendships

*Wednesday, October 7, Rick Howerton:
http://serendipityblog.com/

Rick writes a full review of Sacred Friendships


*Thursday, October 8, Cynthia Russell Bailey:
http://word4women.wordpress.com/

Cindy writes a full review of Sacred Friendships


*Friday, October 9, Ian Jones:
http://bcsfn.aacc.net/?page_id=11

Ian writes a full review of Sacred Friendships

Thursday, October 01, 2009

Alone with a Jihadist: Book Review


Alone with a Jihadist:
A Biblical Response to Holy War

Book Details

*Author: Aaron D. Taylor
*Publisher: Foghorn Publishers (October, 2009)
*Category: Political Theory

Reviewed By: Bob Kellemen, Ph.D., LCPC, Author of Soul Physicians, Spiritual Friends, Beyond the Suffering, Sacred Friendships, and God’s Healing for Life’s Losses (
www.rpmministries.org)

Recommended: Alone with a Jihadist is sure to be a controversial book on modern political theory (in particular “just war” theory) from a biblical perspective. Whether one agrees or disagrees with Taylor’s conclusions, his thought-provoking suppositions will advance the debate.

Review: What Would Jesus Do…With Worldly Political Power?

At the ripe young age of twenty-eight, Aaron Taylor was inviting by film-maker Stephen Marshall to participate in a feature-length documentary about Muslim-Christian perspectives and relationships. As a result, Taylor spent two full days with Khalid, a radical Muslim jihadist. The conversation radically altered Taylor’s view of the Bible, political power, and war.

Specifically, Khalid challenged Taylor to articulate how he would implement the Bible from a governmental point of view. As Taylor pondered that question, he realized that much of what he had been taught “as a late Gen-X Christian born and raised in the charismatic movement” didn’t fit a biblical theology of church and state.

He “always assumed that society would be better off if more Christians would seize the reigns of political power and restore godly values through righteous legislation. After I met Khalid and discovered the end result of an ideology bent on world domination by holy writ, I began to rethink this assumption. I realized that had Jesus wanted to seize the reigns of political power to establish a just society, He certainly could have.”

After much research of Scripture, Taylor concluded that Jesus eschewed, and would have his followers, eschew worldly political power. “A careful study of the New Testament reveals there are two types of kingdoms available to mankind—and only two. The Kingdom of God always looks like Jesus and operates from the basis of power through redemptive love and the kingdoms of this world operate from the basis of power-through-the-sword. The Kingdom of God always comes under people to serve them. The kingdoms of this world always rule over people to subdue them.”

That much, few would disagree with. However, it is in the implications and out-workings where Taylor is sure to make “enemies” among the “Christian right.” Much of the debate will center around Taylor’s interpretation of the context of Romans 13:1-4. Taylor summarizes the traditional view, then attempts to debunk it.

“The Apostle says that the rulers of this world don’t bear the sword in vain; therefore a Christian can wield the power of the sword as long as a legitimate authority sanctions it. The logic seems perfectly sound…that is…until you read the verses in context and discover that Paul wasn’t writing to the government of his day; he was writing to Christians, and Paul’s underlying assumption is that Christians are the ones being governed, not the ones doing the governing.”

Taylor goes on to state that from verses like Romans 13:14, 17, 19-21, that Christians are not to avenge themselves. Of course, commentators and proponents of just war will be quick to counter that Taylor may be mixing application here—from individual responsibility and responses to aggression to governmental responsibility and responses to aggression. This is actually quite vital to his argument and does not seem to be dealt with deeply enough.

In his defense, Taylor does hold this conclusion with modesty. “While it’s true that the Apostle grants the State the right to bear the sword, it doesn’t necessarily follow from this passage that a Christian has the right to bear the sword in the name of the State, so the least that we can say is the Apostle is silent on this issue” (some would say he is decidedly not silent and quite clear on this issue).

Another issue that Taylor highlights is Christian nationalism. “I believe that for too long the word ‘evangelical’ has been synonymous with hyper-nationalism.” Here Taylor is rather cut-and-dry. “The Bible when understood in its entirety is an anti-war, anti-nationalism document.”

Taylor amusingly illustrates his point with the imaginary “Sweet Sister Sally.” She is harmless as a dove when it comes to loving sinners, but clearly she’s a hawk when it comes to war. She says that the difference between Jesus and Muhammad is that Jesus was a man of peace and Muhammad a man of war. Yet she believes that Jesus sanctions holy war against the enemies of democracy.

Taylor concludes that no nation has the authority to invade another nation, even if the purpose is promoting “freedom” and “democracy.” He further remains unconvinced that it’s the proper place for a Christian to bear the sword even in extreme circumstances.

I’m not convinced by all of Taylor’s theological and exegetical conclusions. He addresses issues that have been debated for over 2,000 years, and no one book is going to settle the matter for thinking Christians. I will say this, whether you agree or disagree, Taylor does make the debate about biblical interpretation and not about political persuasion. In other words, he does not write as a “raving liberal,” but as a concerned Christian truly trying to think through the implications of Jesus’ teaching on the role of government and warfare, the role of the Christian and the sword, and the relationship of the church and state.

Taylor has made me think…and re-think some long-held and cherished political perspectives. Just as Khalid started a new thought process for Taylor, Taylor has started a new thought process for me. He has not so much changed my mind as he has opened my mind to take a second look. I believe that he’ll do the same for most readers who approach Alone with a Jihadist with an open mind…and an open Bible.

First Review of Sacred Friendships


First Review of Sacred Friendships

Sandra Peoples, at her very informative and encouraging blog, Heart for Him has posted a review of Sacred Friendships.

You can read her full review at: http://bit.ly/3OT3Qy

You can pick up the book at: http://bit.ly/MG1l5

Here's a small sampler of what Sandra had to say:

"Women today can thank Kellemen and Ellis for the great gift of wisdom from generations of women who have gone before us. Not only for the hours of research it took to compile this book, but also for their personal touches of application and encouragement. The women profiled can thank Kellemen and Ellis for the great gift of allowing their voices to be heard."

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

A Voice for the Voiceless


A Voice for the Voiceless:
Radio Interview on Sacred Friendships

Listen to Aaron Taylor at "Deep Thoughts with Aaron Taylor" as he interviews me about Sacred Friendships and various views of women in ministry. http://bit.ly/42vzcC

Here's what Aaron says about the interivew:

Listen to my fascinating interview with author Robert Kellemen on his new book celebrating the women heroes of the faith. Kellemen served for more than a decade as the founding Chairman of the Master of Arts in Christian Counseling and Discipleship Department at Capital Bible Seminary in Lanham, Maryland. He is now Professor-at-Large in that department. In his new book, Kellemen gives a panorama of Christian history celebrating the forgotten female heroes. In this, he gives a stunning blow to a patriarchal view of history.

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Susannah Spurgeon's Ministry to Her Depressed Husband

Susannah Spurgeon's Ministry to Her Depressed Husband

The Sacred Friendships Blog Tour continues today with Angela Dockter-Harris posting author Q/As from our interview with her.

Please visit Angela's site at: http://bit.ly/gnE8L

Also, check out Angela's excellent book on grieving: Dance in the Rain.

In Angela's blog tour post, among other fascinating descriptions, you will learn how Susannah Spurgeon ministered to her discouraged and depressed husband, the famous Baptist preacher, C. H. Spurgeon.

For your own copy of Sacred Friendships, please visit: http://bit.ly/MG1l5

Monday, September 28, 2009

Sacred Friendships: Refuse to Bury Your Talents

Sacred Friendships: Refuse to Bury Your Talent

The Sacred Friendships Blog Tour enters its second exciting week today.

Angela Ambroise, at her He Speaks to Me blog site (http://bit.ly/1VHhvo) has posted an Author Interview.

Among other questions, she asks about the great women of the Reformation.

One of our answers: "The commonality among all these women of the Reformation is their refusal to bury their talents."

To learn more, be sure to visit: http://bit.ly/1VHhvo

You'll also learn about the African American woman who was Mary Lincoln's sole scared friend when President Lincoln was shot.

Angela also graciously linked the Sacred Friendships Blog Tour to the Book Blogs website at: http://bit.ly/8sUxh