Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Does God Have Your Attention?


God’s Healing for Life’s Losses:
How to Find Hope When You’re Hurting

Post 14: Does God Have Your Attention?

When loss hits we are typically so shocked that we numb and deny. Our caring God gently urges us toward candor—honesty with ourselves. Because He knows all, He also invites us to complain/lament—honesty with Him. Because He is all-powerful and infinitely loving, He further wants us to cry out to Him—humbly asking Him for help based upon my admission that I can’t survive without Him

Biblical Samplers

Psalm 56:8 teaches that we pray our tears and God collects them in His bottle. Psalm 72:12 assures us, “For he will deliver the needy who cry out” (KJV—when he crieth). Psalm 34 reminds us, “The righteous cry out, and the LORD hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles. The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:17-18).

I learned the significance of those particular verses from a counselee whose husband had left her for another woman. She clung to the truth and taught me the truth that God’s good heart goes out, especially, to the humble needy. She practiced biblical cry—the hopeful, trusting expression that God would mobilize Himself on her behalf.

Crying out to God, lamenting, is a testimony that God is responsive, while the idols are non-responsive (1 Samuel 12:20-24). When we cry out, we entreat God to help because expressed neediness compels God’s very character to act. God acts on voiced pain. He’s not a deaf and dumb idol.

More Room for God

Crying empties us, so there is more room in us for God. David wept until he had no strength left, but then he found strength in the LORD (1 Samuel 30:6). His cry summoned God into action—supportive action.

Suffering is God’s “opus alienum”—God’s dominant way of destroying our self-reliance and complacency. He uses suffering to gain our attention. Suffering is a slap in the face, the shock of icy water, a bloodied nose; meant to snatch our attention. Cry is our admission that God has our attention, that God has us.

Helping Others

Return tomorrow to learn how to help others to cry out to God. And the next day—learn how you can cry out to God in utter dependency.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

I needed to hear this truth today. Thank you.