The Journey: Day Thirty-Six--Unbosoming Our Spiritual Conflicts

The Journey: Forty Days of Promise
Celebrating the Legacy of African American Christianity

Day Thirty-Six: Unbosoming Our Spiritual Conflicts

Welcome to day thirty-six of our forty-day intercultural journey. From Martin Luther King Day to the end of Black History Month we are focusing on The Journey: Forty Days of Promise—Celebrating the Legacy of African American Christianity.

Day Thirty-Six: Unbosoming Our Spiritual Conflicts[1]

Earlier we learned of Zilpha Elaw’s early life of freedom in Philadelphia and of her spiritual freedom through conversion at age eighteen. In 1810, at age twenty, she married Joseph Elaw whose nominal Christianity strained their marriage. Joseph died of consumption in 1823. For the next two years, Elaw led a school for black children. In 1825, she closed the school to pursue her sense of calling from God—a calling that included a five-year ministry in England.

Throughout her ministry, Elaw emphasized mutual spiritual friendship. She addressed the dedication of her autobiography to “the Saints and faithful Brethren in Christ” in London. Reflecting on their fellowship together, she writes,

“If, therefore, there is anything in the soul reviving and thrilling Christian fellowship we have enjoyed together in the Spirit of Christ, and in the holy communion with which we have so frequently met together in the house of God, mingled our ascending petitions at the throne of grace, unbosomed our spiritual conflicts and trials to one another, and listened with devotional interest to the messages of gospel mercy, and the unfolding mysteries of divine grace . . .”

Images of Spiritual Friendship

Notice how replete her language is with images of spiritual friendship. Its purpose is to revive the soul; its mode is the practice of awe-inspiring Christian community. Its foundation is the joint worship of Christ; its pattern is mingled fellowship of Christians.

Its starting point is sustaining—so beautifully pictured by the phrase “unbosomed our spiritual conflicts and trials to one another.” Its high point is healing—so clearly summarized by the concept of grace-based spiritual conversations—“listened with devotional interest to the messages of gospel mercy, and the unfolding mysteries of divine grace.”

A Community of Disciples

As Jesus with the Twelve and Paul with Timothy, Titus, and Silas, Elaw maintained a community of disciples. Also like Jesus and Paul, Elaw had a discipleship plan or model. Specifically, she focused on the “pursuit of the higher attainments of experiential spirituality.” In the context, Elaw explains the vision associated with that statement. The goal of her mentoring spiritual direction was “the love of God being richly shed abroad in their hearts by the Holy Ghost” (communion and connection with Christ) and “the apprehension of, and conformity to, the love of Christ” (conformity to Christ).

Elaw not only had a purpose; she had a plan. In ancient language, we would call it “practicing the presence of Christ.” In today’s language, we would call it “practicing the spiritual disciplines.”

In her language, it sounds like this. “Spirituality is such a practical acquaintance with spiritual things, and abiding sense of the existence and agency of spiritual and invisible beings, and converse with them, as gives a complete ascendancy to the moral and mental powers over the animal propensities; but it more especially consists in a discernment of the presence and operations of the Holy Spirit, fellowship with God and his Son Jesus Christ, and the communion of the Holy Spirit, together with an habitual and deep consciousness, and a blooming prospect of the momentous realities of a future life.”

This is “classic” spiritual formation—emphasizing a growing attunement to spiritual realities, putting off the old propensities and putting on the new person in Christ, practicing the presence of God, habituating oneself to the graces of God, and focusing upon the hope of heaven.

Learning Together from Our Great Cloud of Witnesses

1. Which images of spiritual friendship could you apply to your life?

2. What community of spiritual disciples do you lead or want to lead?


[1]Excerpted from, modified from, and quoted from Kellemen and Edwards, Beyond the Suffering: Embracing the Legacy of African American Soul Care and Spiritual Direction. Purchase your copy at 40% off for only $10.00 at www.rpmministries.org.